I’m Concerned About Leading My Teammates and Friends
Dear Durable Minds,
I have just been selected captain and I have so many friends on the team. I know I am going to ask them to do things they don't want to do or have to call out challenging behavior at times, but I don’t want my role to hurt our friendship either. Do you have any suggestions - Tricky Times
“You don’t inspire your teammates by showing them how amazing you are. You inspire them by showing them how amazing they are!”
Dear Tricky Times,
Firstly, congratulations on your selection as captain! This achievement reflects your leadership capabilities and the respect you command among your peers. Nonetheless, it's natural to feel some trepidation about balancing your newfound responsibilities with maintaining your friendships.
Your role's scope will be determined by your head coach, which varies between merely assisting in drills to having difficult conversations and enforcing accountability. Trust forms the bedrock of any new endeavor, be it with a coach, a job, or a friendship. Just as you've established trust with your coach to earn the captaincy, you'll extend this trust to navigate these new situations. Here are some suggestions for you and your coaching squad: