Stay In Your Lane
Dear Durable Minds,
Some of my players are so focused on what their teammates are or are not doing that it is creating additional drama, causing them to lose sight of their own responsibilities. While I appreciate having extra eyes on the field, it is not their role. Do you have any suggestions? - Stay In Your Lane
“Starve your distractions. Feed your focus. ” -Unknown
Dear Stay In Your Lane,
I recently met with a coaching staff to gain key insights into their recent success. Let's be clear: it hasn't always been this way. If you've ever heard the saying, "there are too many cooks in the kitchen," it perfectly captures the chaos this team experienced when too many players, coaches, and parents inserted themselves at any given time.
In a sports team or any collaborative environment, this can lead to a myriad of problems. First and foremost, it creates confusion and overlap in responsibilities, as players may feel compelled to monitor and critique their teammates' actions instead of focusing on their tasks.
This not only diminishes individual performance but also sows discord and tension within the team.
Furthermore, the lack of clear leadership can lead to conflicting directions and strategies, undermining the team's cohesion and effectiveness. When everyone is trying to assert their opinions and methods, it can stall progress and lead to decision paralysis, where no meaningful action is taken due to constant disagreements and second-guessing.
Ultimately, this environment stifles creativity, as players might become more focused on not stepping on each other's toes rather than exploring new and effective ways to develop their skills. Let's see how this team overcame these challenges.