Is My Coach Giving Me Feedback, Blaming or Shaming?
Dear Durable Minds,
My coaches and captains are constantly giving me feedback, most of the time it seems like they are blaming or shaming me. Am I being too dramatic? What do I need to understand about feedback so I can get over it? - Abit Sensitive
Feedback is a G.I.F.T.
-Given with permission
-Intended for growth
-For the person, not about the person
-Targeted for success
Dear Abit Sensitive,
Receiving feedback can be tough, especially when it feels like criticism rather than constructive input. If you're an athlete and find yourself in a situation where your coaches and captains are constantly providing feedback that feels like blame or shame, you're not alone. It's essential to recognize that your feelings are valid, and you're not being too dramatic. In this blog post, we'll explore how sensitive individuals can better understand and cope with such feedback to foster growth and resilience in the world of sports.
As a sensitive athlete, receiving feedback that feels like blame or shame can be a real struggle. However, it's essential to remember that your sensitivity is not a weakness. By acknowledging your emotions, separating feedback from your identity, fostering open communication, and practicing mindfulness and resilience, you can transform challenging feedback into a catalyst for personal and athletic growth. Ultimately, your journey as an athlete is about becoming the best version of yourself, and learning to handle feedback constructively is a significant step in that direction.